Better Lives and Healing

Popular holistic fitness routines such as pilates, yoga and meditation address mental health, physical health, emotional health and spirituality. Most people partake in these programs to improve their physical state with only later realizing the benefits that come with the programs themselves. Appropriate tools are necessary to achieve the best results from each of these types of “workouts”. Exercise mats usually will do the job, but for meditation (especially in a longer session) a thin sticky mat won’t cut it. A floor pillow, or zafu, is much better on the tailbone and overall, the spine. Discomfort will not allow you to reach a deep meditative state.

A meditation seat or zafu/zabuton combo puts the body in a relaxed but alert position where energy is in an optimal flow. As each person is designed a bit different, different siting or kneeling positions work best for those individuals. Most of the time with floor pillows the practitioner is in a type of cross-legged position. A lotus is defined with both feet tucked up above the calves. A half lotus is where only one foot rests above the opposing calf while the other is tucked underneath. A zabuton, which resembles a large American floor pillow works well with the lotus and half-lotus.

However, when using a zafu, a raised round or square floor pillow, the burmese position is more suited to this meditating prop. The burmese position is where both legs are crossed in front but neither foot rests on the calves. This position is very stable with three points being supported like a tripod. This cushion/position combination is much easier on the joints compared to the lotus and half-lotus. If you become more flexible, a standard floor cushion and one of the lotus positions is all you really need. With meditation your hip muscles do loosen over time.From the zafu spawned several version of a crescent shaped raised pillow giving even further support to the upper leg during a meditation session. When you’re allowing yourself this much support, generally you haven’t much flexibility and are more than a beginner. Most crescent shaped elevated pillows are sold with the zabuton. So the zafu or crescent is intended for spine alignment and zabuton is to cushion the ankle and feet, preventing them from being a distraction.

A hint when using the zafu or crescent is to scoot forward toward the edge instead of sitting in the middle. Moving forward like this will angle the pelvis to a point where there is little strain placed on the knees. There are two common types of filling for the floor pillow, or zafu. One type is kapok which is a dense cotton-like substance which is packed quite firm and will retain its shape for several months. The other is buckwheat hull. This acts like sand and will shift easily inside the fabric. Immediately, it conforms to the shape of the practitioner. Meditating is much easier with props like these than the exercise mats made for yoga and pilates.

[[posterous-content:pid___0]]Without any question, the search for inner peace and spiritual healing can be the most important journey a soul will ever make. Trying to make sense of everything that has happened and is happening during one’s life and coming to terms with the results and repercussions of those occurrences is never a simple thing to accomplish, but the good news is that it can be done as many others have shown. The path to achieving this goal is not always a simple formula to follow, and that path can and usually is a bit different for all who attempt to take it, but there are however some suggestions that might be of assistance in getting started. Let’s take a look at some of those.

One great place to begin is to take the time for a casual walk through a piece of nature such as a forest, field, mountain road or park and allow yourself the time to actually take in the beauty around you. Watch the residents of these areas and be aware of the life they make for themselves there and how they are able to blend in with the total scene. Smell the flowers and plants and soak in the colors and sights, and realize that all of this is part of something greater than any one person and coming to peace with it and realizing that it is possible to be a part of it can provide a special feeling of serenity and joy.

Take the time and make the effort to reach out for another person and offer them the very best gift anyone can, a part of themselves. There is nothing more important and irreplaceable than being able to give all you have to offer from within to a fellow traveler in this journey. One sometimes has no idea just how important and possibly life-changing this might be. And although it is never the intention at the beginning, the fact of the matter is that the more one gives from the heart and soul, the greater the peace and joy that will come back to them. And when one receives any gratitude and positive response in return for their extension of themselves, the very best advice one can give is to simply ask the recipient to pass whatever they have gained onto another. Spiritual health through Buddhist meditation is accomplished again by taking the time for oneself and reflecting and praying to whatever higher power one chooses to believe in and turn to for guidance and direction. Knowing that there is a power greater than one’s own self and establishing an open line of dialogue and communication with it can help answer any troubling questions and provide the stability and evenness that will only help to calm what can be life’s turmoil.

In closing, it truly all begins with taking the time to talk to one’s self. This is not being selfish at all but rather a path to feeling at ease and comfortable thus able to bring the very best of who you are to the rest of the world. They and you will be glad you did.

Without any question, the search for inner peace and spiritual healing can be the most important journey a soul will ever make. Trying to make sense of everything that has happened and is happening during one’s life and coming to terms with the results and repercussions of those occurrences is never a simple thing to accomplish, but the good news is that it can be done as many others have shown. The path to achieving this goal is not always a simple formula to follow, and that path can and usually is a bit different for all who attempt to take it, but there are however some suggestions that might be of assistance in getting started. Let’s take a look at some of those.
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One great place to begin is to take the time for a casual walk through a piece of nature such as a forest, field, mountain road or park and allow yourself the time to actually take in the beauty around you. Watch the residents of these areas and be aware of the life they make for themselves there and how they are able to blend in with the total scene. Smell the flowers and plants and soak in the colors and sights, and realize that all of this is part of something greater than any one person and coming to peace with it and realizing that it is possible to be a part of it can provide a special feeling of serenity and joy.

Take the time and make the effort to reach out for another person and offer them the very best gift anyone can, a part of themselves. There is nothing more important and irreplaceable than being able to give all you have to offer from within to a fellow traveler in this journey. One sometimes has no idea just how important and possibly life-changing this might be. And although it is never the intention at the beginning, the fact of the matter is that the more one gives from the heart and soul, the greater the peace and joy that will come back to them. And when one receives any gratitude and positive response in return for their extension of themselves, the very best advice one can give is to simply ask the recipient to pass whatever they have gained onto another.

Spiritual health through Buddhist meditation is accomplished again by taking the time for oneself and reflecting and praying to whatever higher power one chooses to believe in and turn to for guidance and direction. Knowing that there is a power greater than one’s own self and establishing an open line of dialogue and communication with it can help answer any troubling questions and provide the stability and evenness that will only help to calm what can be life’s turmoil.In closing, it truly all begins with taking the time to talk to one’s self. This is not being selfish at all but rather a path to feeling at ease and comfortable thus able to bring the very best of who you are to the rest of the world. They and you will be glad you did.

Without any question, the search for inner peace and spiritual healing can be the most important journey a soul will ever make. Trying to make sense of everything that has happened and is happening during one’s life and coming to terms with the results and repercussions of those occurrences is never a simple thing to accomplish, but the good news is that it can be done as many others have shown. The path to achieving this goal is not always a simple formula to follow, and that path can and usually is a bit different for all who attempt to take it, but there are however some suggestions that might be of assistance in getting started. Let’s take a look at some of those.

One great place to begin is to take the time for a casual walk through a piece of nature such as a forest, field, mountain road or park and allow yourself the time to actually take in the beauty around you. Watch the residents of these areas and be aware of the life they make for themselves there and how they are able to blend in with the total scene. Smell the flowers and plants and soak in the colors and sights, and realize that all of this is part of something greater than any one person and coming to peace with it and realizing that it is possible to be a part of it can provide a special feeling of serenity and joy.Take the time and make the effort to reach out for another person and offer them the very best gift anyone can, a part of themselves. There is nothing more important and irreplaceable than being able to give all you have to offer from within to a fellow traveler in this journey. One sometimes has no idea just how important and possibly life-changing this might be. And although it is never the intention at the beginning, the fact of the matter is that the more one gives from the heart and soul, the greater the peace and joy that will come back to them. And when one receives any gratitude and positive response in return for their extension of themselves, the very best advice one can give is to simply ask the recipient to pass whatever they have gained onto another.

Spiritual health through Buddhist meditation is accomplished again by taking the time for oneself and reflecting and praying to whatever higher power one chooses to believe in and turn to for guidance and direction. Knowing that there is a power greater than one’s own self and establishing an open line of dialogue and communication with it can help answer any troubling questions and provide the stability and evenness that will only help to calm what can be life’s turmoil.In closing, it truly all begins with taking the time to talk to one’s self. This is not being selfish at all but rather a path to feeling at ease and comfortable thus able to bring the very best of who you are to the rest of the world. They and you will be glad you did.

Are self-confident people as insecure on the inside as you? There are many people in your world that appear confident on the outside, but are relying on their Pretend to make it through the day. Now, the Pretend self is one of three selves that make up our personality.

First of all there is the Pretend self. This identity will fake it until you make it to manage life obstacles. Then, there is the Negative self. This identity focuses on all your negative habits and projects a detrimental image of the self. Lastly, there is the Authentic self. The Authentic self is the tender person you truly are at the core.

Because folks fear not fitting in, many people hide behind the Pretend self. It hurts to be judged by others. If you fit in, you won’t be judged. It takes a lot of energy to live the Pretend self and over time, you forget how to be an Authentic person.Now, the Negative self is fueled by insecurities. Certain actions bring the Negative self to the forefront. Like, when someone calls you a name, you become upset. Your Negative self actually believes that you symbolized that bad remark. In Change Your Life in Seven Days, Paul McKenna states, “Any negative traits you identify are not really yours - they belong to your negative self-image and were programmed into you when you were a child. By identifying them honestly, you can let them go.”

Conversely, the Authentic self is whole and content identity deep inside you. This self is the one filled with joy when loved one are nearby; the one that harbors dreams and aspirations. This powerful self is unstoppable if it allowed to govern a person’s actions. Permitting the Authentic self to take over is easy. But, you must identify the negative and false dialogues that Negative and Pretend selves are running. You have the opportunity to change your life. Start working on instant confidence using self help books such as Change Your Life in Seven Days. Once you’ve figured out how to get back on track to become happy on the inside, then you can move on to fix how other people treat you.

Be the person you want to be because the longest journey begins right where you stand. Roxanne has the Easy NLP and Hypnosis Workbook. Start using it today.

Warmly,

NLP stands for Neuro Linguistic Programming. It characterizes the management of thoughts and feeling provoked through language, both spoken and body language. Self help practitioners such as Paul McKenna, author of Change Your Life in Seven Days, use NLP because of it’s powerful influence on negative habits.

Using an unsuspecting friend, try this experiment. Making sure you can see them, text them this message.

I saw a Scratch on Your car. Who Knows who did it.Now make sure you capitalize the words scratch, your and knows. They have to stand out just a little bit. What you’ve done is embedded the command, scratch your nose, to your friend. Knows and nose are phonetically ambiguous, so don’t worry about that. Did your friend scratch their nose?

Studying the thoughts and behaviors in response to communication is the core of NLP. Using observation, NLP practitioners determine which communications elicit a desired outcome and which ones don’t. From there, they tailor new communication options for a patient. Programs to stop smoking and those to help people lose weight employ NLP to identify the external triggers that keep people in bad habits.Many times when you communicate, you are managing to send multiple messages through your body language, eye movement, tone of voice, pace of speech and even your speed of breath. What if, consciously, you could choreograph these paths of communication efficiently? Right now, you probably use a shotgun approach with very few filters and learned negative body communication.

Take, for instance, a desperate sales person trying to close the deal. Because this sales person was communicating his fear, the client won’t probably buy. What about the frustrated husband? He’s trying to talk calmly to his wife, but she sees his clenched jaw and tensed shoulders. She knows they are headed for a fight.Nobody gets what they want with miscommunication. Many of us have developed stereotypes that are destructive such as taking things personally when someone declines our offer, or at best, unproductive like assuming your request will be declined before you’ve had the chance to ask.

Fully communicating your intent is what NLP helps out with. Since everyone has their own set of experiences, NLP is not just a cookie cutter solution. It must be tested and revised for each person. But, with the help of NLP, you can start to see the communication patterns that happen between yourself and others. From there, you will be able to study their reactions to your new communication styles. This is valuable feedback on the path toward improvement. Can you imagine what it would be like to skillfully communicate with your clients, parents, partner or the kids?

Grab the free Easy NLP and Hypnosis Workbook at Roxanne’s site www.changeyourlifeinsevendays.com. Your longest journey begins right where you stand. Start that change today.

Warmly,

Some professionals claim they can change your life in seven days. I’m not going to tell you what to believe about hypnotism because you are going to make up your own mind. But an individual could get a lot of help using hypnotism, self or with a professional, after all. You may already feel a sense of optimism from starting something new. You could enjoy hypnotism because there’s no reason not to. It’s up to you.

Try this. Visualize a lemon that you grabbed from the fruit bowl. You’ve placed it on the cutting board. You’re going to cut it into quarters for some salmon that’s on the grill. You notice that after you have cut the lemon into quarters, there’s a lot of lemon juice on the board and the wedges themselves. Close your eyes. Visualized grabbing one wedge and biting into it. Take a few moments. Absorb the visualization. What has happened? Your tongue is tingling because I suggested that you bite down on a pretend lemon. You mind cannot distinguish between what is real and what is imagined.

Beginning with the basics of hypnosis, it is an altered state of consciousness. The hypnotized usually feel a peaceful relaxation and suggestibility is increased. Now, stage hypnotists, such as Paul McKenna, Justin James and Michael Bane, use this suggestibility to provide entertainment. These performers turn audience members into dancing buffoons, clucking chickens and the newly popular, strippers.Clinical hypnosis tends to get more things done. Many people are familiar with hypnosis being used to help people stop smoking for good. Other people use hypnosis for weight loss. Less known uses for hypnosis is for light anesthesia for surgery and also as pain reduction techniques. It is truly where the brain is taking care of the body.

The mechanics of hypnosis appears to be a form of disassociation. In psychology and psychiatry it refers to the state of being separated. This separation is a perceived detachment of the mind from the emotional self or even a separation from the body. It is characterized by a sense of the world as dreamlike, and possibly accompanied by a poor recollection of the events that took place during the disassociation.Now, the condition of disassociation, where memory gets split off from other parts of the brain is also plays a crucial role in amnesia and in extreme cases, multiple personalities. With hypnosis, the disassociation is mild and under control of the hypnotist.

Hypnotic induction temporarily separates the brains executive command center (frontal lobes) from other parts of the brain such as the emotional-control (limbic system) and sensory perception (parietal lobes). With the relaxing of the hypnotized brain, it allows the hypnotist to present commands more directly without the patient criticizing or examining the commands for reasonability and practicality. With patients censoring, judging and criticizing offline, suggestions are adopted “behind the scenes”.

Your longest journey begins where you stand. Start that change today. Download the free NLP and Hypnosis Workbook at Roxanne’s blog to begin.

Warmly,

You were born rich and you can turn your life into anything you want. Unfortunately, you are the one person getting in the way of that. You have accumulate a massive amount of negative influences and attitudes along the way ultimately keeping you from what you want. During these travels through life you’ve collected many tools to deal with the hardships such as denial, television, alcohol and other forms of depressants. Similarly, you’ve also used caffeine and quick fixes to create the highs in your life.

You shop for pleasure only to feel guilty later since you shouldn’t really afford it. You want to be that person in the advertisement, though. Not a care in the world. Unfortunately, the advertisements aren’t real. They don’t care about you; just about separating you from your money.

Why did life turn out this way? Well, you have been listening to everyone but yourself. You’ve listened to family, to teachers and, of course, to your boss. These folks have a huge vested interest in your performance, not well being, your performance. They don’t get pats on the back for making sure you’re happy. I know it’s hard to hear.You can be insulated from negativity and high expectations. You need to remove yourself from the negativity. You have to understand your dreams. Most importantly, you have to pace yourself. Do you think that getting to this dream life will be quick? Absolutely not. You have to re-condition yourself, un-train yourself and battle all the naysayers that want you to be miserable with them.

Your dreams are the signpost to your life. They are telling you were you need to be headed and what your true potential is.Say you always just love the smell of a used bookstore or ravage any book that crosses your path. Maybe you were meant to work with books; at a library, bookstore, as writer, an agent or editor. Or maybe black and white photographs usually stops you dead in your tracks and you examine that photograph before continuing on with your day. Is photography supposed to be part of your world; as a studio photographer, an assistant or graphic designer? The signs are there. They are living in your dreams.

You have to want to start, though. Sitting at home, waiting for someone to tell you what to do only gets you sitting and waiting. It is up to you to get the support and information you need. I’ve identified some of the problems and some ways at looking at how to start fixing them. You have to take the steps to change.Thanks for reading. Check out You Were Born Rich Blog for more info!

 

Warmly,